I can relate to this! This is something I’ve spent a lot of time on. Many of the things I thought I cared about were things that I discovered doesn’t matter at all. I took them for granted without questioning why that was. Work culture is fascinating.
It's still evolving! When examined retrospectively, many of what I thought were my opinions were based on fears of how colleagues and leadership perceived me in my previous company. From the perspective of a good worker, when you take their money, you're also expected to conform and not rock the boat.
Love the Miro with personal achievements / ambitions. As a product person had a huge aha moment - I am still journaling this by hand. This view makes for such a great personal story board.
Kate this is incredible. I'm currently working on a workbook for the book, want to help?!
Paul, thank you! It would be my pleasure to contribute to the things you're building, let's discuss it in DM 🙌
I absolutely love this Kate - I think the way you frame the psychological uncertainty - and show the work you've done to embrace it is incredible.
Can't wait to see your success on this path - very inspiring to me too!
Thanks! That means a lot 🙏 Will try to share more stuff like that along the path — and hope the right definition of success comes one day ✨
> Searching for “what I care about the most”
I can relate to this! This is something I’ve spent a lot of time on. Many of the things I thought I cared about were things that I discovered doesn’t matter at all. I took them for granted without questioning why that was. Work culture is fascinating.
would be very curious to here how your definition of "what I care about the most" transformed and evolved! I'm on my way 😉
It's still evolving! When examined retrospectively, many of what I thought were my opinions were based on fears of how colleagues and leadership perceived me in my previous company. From the perspective of a good worker, when you take their money, you're also expected to conform and not rock the boat.
I'm a software developer, so several other things I've gradually had to unlearn fall under what Louie Bacaj calls [Expensive Baggage](https://newsletter.memesmotivations.com/p/m-and-ms-expensive-baggage).
Love the Miro with personal achievements / ambitions. As a product person had a huge aha moment - I am still journaling this by hand. This view makes for such a great personal story board.